It is not my job to keep track of offenses or wrongdoings. In fact that is the opposite of love and that is not what it says in 1 Corinthians. Our job is to forgive and it is God's job to work everything else out.

Love:

"It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." (1 Corinthians 13:5 NIV)

"And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors." (Matthew 6:12 KJV)